First of all, I would like to mention that being blind to your own privilege is not type-specific.
I’ve been thinking she’s maybe an ESFJ, though, for a while now. She’s got kind of Carrie Fisher irreverent humour (strong tertiary Ne, which is why I keep confusing the ESFJs for ENFPs), and does a… blanked out face? that I always used to see on Elizabeth Taylor
(I don’t really know how to describe it, I just always found it noticeable). Using your own humiliation to make people laugh is totally an Fe thing as well.
I haven’t switched her though because for all of that I’m still finding it hard to look at her and think ESFJ (I think I’m missing a person between her and the rest, maybe, so it’s not sitting easy), and also because the clumsiness is confusing. The ‘dizzy dame’ thing, sure. SJs incapable of walking? A bit harder to overlook.
I think I’m convincing myself to move her tentatively, though, anyway. So.